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The debate over yoga and weight loss persists today with “fitness experts” often arguing that yoga doesn’t burn enough calories to be considered “exercise” and yoga practitioners adamantly testifying to its benefits.

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As a veteran of long-term sustained weight loss and a yoga devotee for eight years, here’s my perspective on yoga for weight loss.

There are many different types of yoga, all requiring different energy (calorie) quotients and physical capability. Some yogas (vinyasa and flow types) require students to move quite a lot throughout a yoga class; others increase demand through heat (Bikram, Forrest); and some are quite gentle and slow (yin, restorative).

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It’s almost Valentine’s Day and look at what’s on my desk!

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These are beautiful truffles from a party I gave right before Christmas. I used them as decorations at each place setting at the table.

So why are they sitting on my desk? Well, they are there because they were left over.

Now, there was a day when a leftover chocolate of any kind had NO SHELF LIFE within a 50-yard radius of Pat Barone!

With complete embarrassment, I admit I was that guest at the wedding

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It’s rare that we meet someone who is truly giving in this world. And so sad when the world loses such a person.

Today, I learned that a colleague of mine, a pioneer ADD coach, passed away. His name was Ken Zaretzky and he was truly a champion of coaching and coaches. He was a beautiful, open, painfully honest, caring man who loved to see coaches succeed. I first met him in one of my coach training courses, and he truly delighted in my success as a coach and businesswoman.

He would call me and say, “I just wanted you to know I heard you’re doing great things for your clients.” I never knew where he heard that (this was long before social media) but I was so touched he wanted me to hear good things.

He had this habit of giving money to people.

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I popped in to the crowded grocery store today. There weren’t many carts but one stood all alone near the cart corral… just for me! I zoomed through the store because I don’t like to spend a lot of time there… I had a list and knew exactly what I needed to buy.

Whole turkey breast … check
Brown rice pasta … check
Organic milk … check
100% whole wheat bread … check
Bottled water … uggggg

I lugged a 24-bottle case to the cart and popped it in and took off.

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All of a sudden…

SQUUUEEEAAAKKKKK!

The most awful screech rang through the store. I tried repositioning the water to no avail. I just needed a few more items and it was a long way to the unused carts, so I decided to live with the sound. No wonder no one had wanted that cart!

“Oh, my god, I couldn’t keep on shopping with that noise,” one woman said.

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I’m just back from a conference focused on scientific studies about change where I heard a repetitive chant: “People Don’t Change.”

I’ll acknowledge there are studies that show most patients who encounter life threatening conditions return to old behaviors that caused the problem in the first place. Hence, the red meat seduces the heart patient. Nicotine lures the smoker. Permanent weight loss is rare as weight comes back to the dieter.

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I know some people don’t care to change, or it is too threatening to them to do so. Yes, living without food as a soother, friend or emotional barrier can be scarier than death.

I fit that picture once.

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The first of the year always brings energy to weight loss. The gyms get busier. Stores stock diet products and push them in our face. Advertising proliferates.

Now comes the news that Jenny Craig has a new spokeswoman, Carrie Fisher.

This news really hit me hard. It made me very sad.

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I wasn’t sad because we’ve got yet another famous face attempting to glamourize temporary weight loss. I wasn’t sad because we are once again NOT TALKING about sustainable change. I wasn’t even sad because we have to watch another public “slim down” and rebound.

The fact that our society spends untold amounts of energy circling the real reasons for our addictive behavior and instead plays bullshit games with destructive dieting is always sad to me.

I was really affected by this because I think Carrie Fisher is a remarkably talented woman.

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If you participated in our January 1st challenge, thank you! The challenge was to guess how many times I exercised in 2010. A package of Catalyst products for permanent weight loss valued at $350 is on its way to Deborah Phillipi!

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Deborah guessed 355 exercise sessions for my activity output last year. My actual total was

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So you realize its time to take your workouts to the next level in order to achieve your weight loss and fitness goals. Perhaps you’ve outgrown those dumbbells in your dusty basement or you are bored with your current workouts. Maybe the variety of exercise possibilities in a gym is a motivator.

Congratulations! Nothing burns fat quicker than more muscle. In the world of permanent weight loss, building muscle through weight lifting or resistance training is the best thing you can do for yourself.

Navigating the maze of equipment in a gym can be daunting; navigating the unwritten rules and unseen territory of other users’ workouts can be even more confusing. Many people find a gym, particularly the weight-lifting area, intimidating. Becoming comfortable quickly is important to your fitness progress. Here are a few tips to make your journey easier.

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First of all, keep in mind the gym is a shared resource. The object is to have as much variety and equipment available as possible. That’s a plus for your workout. But, you also have to be mindful of others sharing the space.

1. Wear appropriate clothing. Never wear tight clothing, too-short shorts or revealing clothes. They can be distracting which will get you no points with others and may be downright embarrassing. What looks good when you pose in front of a mirror might be a horror when you are lifting weights in some of the improbable poses weight lifting demands, no matter what your shape or size. Avoid ripped or torn clothing (safety issue) and make sure clothing is clean.

2. Wipe down benches and equipment when you are finished. Most gyms provide antibacterial spray bottles and towels for this purpose. If not, you must carry your own sweat towel.

3. Avoid excessive makeup, cologne or aftershave. Makeup + sweat = acne and cologne + sweat = air pollution.

4. Hair should be secured. I actually saw a long ponytail get caught in a weight stack last week. Instant whiplash! It was not a pretty sight and the wearer was plenty embarrassed but, ultimately, everything comes down to safety and this could have caused a serious injury. Most injuries in the gym are caused by carelessness.

5. Rerack all weights after use. Return bars and dumbbells to their appropriate location. This is a safety issue as well as a courtesy to others. Unload your weights from any bar or machine after you use it.

6. Don’t hang out or socialize on the gym floor or, even worse, on the equipment. Take conversations to the snack bar, the parking lot or the lobby. Leave your cell phone in the locker or your car. If you have questions about equipment or an exercise, ask a gym associate or trainer.

7. Never crowd another lifter. This is a hard one during peak gym hours but placement is important. You don’t want to find yourself in the path of a lifter doing lateral raises with 80 lb. dumbbells. Also, don’t pick a spot to do your exercise that is in between another lifter and the mirror. (Mirrors, by the way, are used to assess proper form, not for doing hair, applying lipstick or posing.) Another spot to avoid is any position that makes it impossible for others to reach a rack and retrieve weights. Long stretching routines should be taken to the designated stretching area. If there isn’t one at your gym, ask for it. And, please, no yoga poses in the weight room or, worse, in the aisles between equipment.

8. If you are doing more than one set, vacate the equipment between sets. You may not realize someone is waiting for that piece of equipment. I have seen exercisers hang around for long intervals between sets, staring at the ground or even reading a book! If you want to read, you should be in the library or coffee shop.

9. If you are doing multi-sets, accommodate others who need the equipment. Likewise, ask to work in politely if someone is hogging the equipment. It’s probably not a good idea to ask to work in if there’s a huge difference in weights (free weights) or bench position. On machines with weight stacks, it’s an easy switch to pull the pin and change the weight being used so there’s not much excuse if someone won’t work in with you there.

10. By the way, will there be jerks who refuse to share equipment, snarl at you if you ask for a spot and leave a mess behind them? Yes. There will be others who feel they have to grunt and groan through their entire set or otherwise attempt to command the attention of others. There are lots of words for these people and I will not mention them here. The important thing to remember is that these are rarities in the gym. It’s best to ignore them and move on, keeping your focus on your workout.

Despite what you may think, most people come to a gym to work and work hard. Respecting this work ethic and cooperating with other gym-goers helps create an environment where everyone can accomplish their goals.